bad eggs, bad sperm

I'm copying this from my posts on FF. I really don't have the mental energy to deal with this.

well not so good news. 1 of the embryo's arrested already. out of the 7 they are all very very poor quality. 6 were 3 cells and 1 was 5 cells. They all had uneven cell growth and in the 3 better quality (still crappy) they were 3 cells and only had 1 nuclei present (each cell should each have 1 nuclei) Needless to say we transfered the 3 best (3 cells) My chances of pregnancy is very slim however he said he has seen a woman with embryo's like mine get pregnant with fraternal twins so I may have a chance at one sticking. He said normally woman my age don't have egg quality issues. it appears I have the eggs of a 40 year old. he said my husbands morphology was poor and that he thinks it is both of us at this point. He suspects chromosomal issues and he is so certain that he doesn't even want to do PGD. As a matter of fact he see's no point in my cycling with my own eggs.

Needless to say if this works it will be nothing short of a miracle. I'm pretty torn up over it and not sure how often I will be on FF for the next few weeks.

Donor egg/embryo/sperm is not an option for DH and I. We'd rather spend the money on adoption